Friday, August 12, 2011

Husband's libido vs antidepressants. (mature)?

Ok this is a serious question try to be mature about it ok? My husband recently started taking an antidepressant. He had serious depression problems for a long time, and the pills seem to be helping a lot. Unfortunately, they have also made him have next to no libido. Pre-pills we enjoyed a very healthy and er, frequent life. 5-10 times a week on average. Now I'm lucky if we make love once a week, and even then it is just a "quicky" and he doesn't seem that into it. I feel terribly selfish to be worried about this when his mood is so much improved, but on the other hand we've been trying for a baby and I can't help thinking this is going to adversely effect that as well as my own selfish needs. What do I do? I don't want him to stop taking the pills but on the other hand I also don't want to have no life with my husband. Help?

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